Have you ever asked your dog to do something, and he does the opposite? Have you ever thought “but he knows it!”. Maybe he raided something from the kitchen, and when you ask him to drop it, he swallows whatever he has. Or perhaps when you call him, he runs the other way. In Agility, you might leave your dog at the start line and say stay, but he does not stay and starts on the course before you give your release. There are two schools of thoughts to what might be happening. Is it that your dog won’t do what you tell him, or can’t do what you tell him?
In the episode you'll hear:
- A deep dive into the impact of what you think of your dog.
- What we can learn from Fenton in Richmond Park.
- About what a dog’s guilty look tells us.
- How fear and conflict affect what we are asking our dogs.
- The many reasons dogs won’t do what we tell them to do.
- What my dog told me about what she knew about hitting the Dog Walk contact.
- The emotional response we have when our dog disobeys.
- Why curiosity about our dog changes our emotion.
- About the rule of three I use when training my dogs.
- The worst-case scenario of a dog getting something right after being punished.
- The bottom line on contributing to a better relationship with your dog.
- How to start building a history of dog training success.
- About believing that if our dogs could, they would.
Resources:
- Podcast Episode 8: Get Your Dog in the Belief Loop of Awesome
- Podcast Episode 62: 12 Keys to Helping My Dogs Live a Long and Happy Life
- Podcast Episode 5: What is Shaping and How Can Dogs Shape Us
- Video: Target Training for Dogs Part One - All About Targets
- Video: Target Training for Dogs Part Two - Step by Step Training Plan
- Blog: How Do I Train My Dog to Come When Called?
- Podcast Episode 63: Why Some Dogs Just Don’t Get It
- Watch this Episode of Shaped by Dog on YouTube
Thank you Susan for explaining this so well, this happened to me tonight and I was so frustrated with myself so I jumped on your website once again to look for an answer. After neglecting the training of my 5 year old Border Collie x Poodle, Murphy, for the past 2 to 3 years I discovered your podcasts and Youtube videos and have become enthusiastic to try to retrain some of his behaviours, in particular, walking nicely on his lead, and to teach him some new tricks. Tonight I wanted to work on having him sit and wait for me to throw his ball until I said “Get it” and he wouldn’t give me a sit…which he knows how to do very well. I asked him to sit and he just looked at me, I waited, turned away, put the ball down and he would not sit, so I gave up. After watching this video I realise he couldn’t do it as he has never been trained to sit when I have had a ball in my hand and all he wanted was the ball. I have soooooooo much to learn, but after watching this I think the penny has dropped! I later sat on the floor next to his ball, asked him to sit, which he did immediately, threw the ball, said “Get it” and he then took off and brought it straight back and put it in my hand and we did that several times. I was so excited and he was clearly happy to have a game of fetch. Now to try to get some duration between the sit and “Get it”. Thank you so much for the wonderful way you explain things, my Murphy and I love learning from you.
This happened to me yesterday at an agility trial. 1 st one in over a year. First ever in USDAA. Novice level. First run gamblers, he broke the start line but I continued and he hit all his contacts and the gamble and qualified. 2nd run standard. He broke his start but I continued he missed the target on the end of the A frame. It was fix and go so I tried it again and he missed it a second time. At that point I called the run. I was so very disappointed and really wondered if I should pull him from the last run which was jumpers. That happens to be the most difficult for us. I debated a long time. I knew that my disappointment could be felt by my dog though I didn’t blame him. I decided to do the last run but did it as FEO no points just for fun. All pressure was off both of us. He didn’t break the start line and had a good run with one dropped bar. What’s a better way to handle this?
“Don’t get furious, get curious” is a more scientific, less emotional way of looking at not just “dog things” but all things in life. I like it! 🍪🍪🍪🍪😋