The topic of this episode comes from a listener suggestion, and it is about “alpha” and “beta” dogs. It’s a bit of a spicy subject, and the words “alpha” and “beta” go back to disproven “dominancy theory”. Even if you are not sure what “dominance theory” is, you might have heard the term “pack leader”. It was common around 30 or so years ago for pet dog training classes to be based on “dominance theory”, but not so much these days. Each of us has filter we see the world through, and that filter is going to have an impact on our dog training choices and beliefs.
In the episode you'll hear:
- What influenced the filters through which I see the world.
- How my filter has an impact on my dog training.
- What I ask if something goes wrong with my dogs.
- The commonalities and digressions I’ve noticed in training beliefs.
- What I googled about dominance theory.
- My quick diversion on humping.
- How what we see in our dogs can be interrupted in different ways.
- The ways our filters relate to our dog training decisions and how changing our filters is possible for everyone.
- That behavior is behavior, for humans and for dogs, and how choice and communication is powerful for any relationship.
- How my puppy This! shredded a bed and my reaction.
- The three things you can do when faced with a challenge with your dog.
- Why it’s time to get curious when you are furious.
- What can go into a plan for you to get what you want with your dog.
- That none of us is perfect.
Resources:
- Quick video of This! shredding her bed (on Facebook)
- Podcast Episode 43: Can a Dog be Happy and Well Trained?
- Podcast Episode 6: The Art of Manipulation
- Podcast Episode 16: The Thing Before Your Dog’s Thing
- Podcast Episode 42: Behavior Chains: Are You Teaching Your Dog to be Bad to be Good?
- Home School the Dog
- Recallers
- Podcast Episode 44: Using Coincidences and Positive Associations in Dog Training
Wow, I’ve been watching/listening to your podcast solidly for the last week – yes I’m already at #46 !
They’re all mind-blowing for someone who was very much of the 80s when it comes to interacting with my dog.
But this one – #46 – it’s different league.
It summed up the the fundamentals of your dog training ethos and why it works.
The bit about a dog asking for your help almost brought a grown man to tears.
I so glad I found your podcast and website.
Keep being amazing.
I don’t know how, but I’m giving 5 stars. Another great podcast.
You are such a great teacher.
I love how you give your insight of things without blaming anyone.
I think you teach us people the same as you teach your dogs.
We are given a choice who and what to believe and what makes us and our dogs happy.
Super. Thanks so much, Susan!
Great episode! Your really quick about answering requests. I wanted to take advantage of that and wondered if you would talk about what you have learned is a great way to give your dogs long lives with great quality. And maybe your insights on how to deal with the stress, anxiety and grief when your pet gets sick and/or passes away.
My 11 year old Labrador is really sick right now, we’re figuring out why, might be his kidneys or liver. I am just so scared and in grief that he might not come out of this. I’ve never experienced any of my pets passing away, most have run away or we gave them back. He is my best bud and I won’t let him go unless there is no hope. 😢❤️🐾